Frequently Asked Questions
Many people have questions that they may or may not feel comfortable asking their funeral director. We hope this will be of some help to you and if you think of something else you would like us to add to this list of questions, please contact us by email or telephone.
What do we do if our family death occurs away from home?
Our funeral home staff will arrange with another funeral home or mortuary, where the death occurred, to have preparation and transportation made back to our funeral home. We can also help you if you are planning to have a service prior to having the family member returned to your home area.
Why is a funeral important?
For thousands of years, funerals have allowed survivors to express their feelings about the death of someone they love. The rituals provide comfort when things seem chaotic and out of control. The funeral is for expressing intense grief. For many, a visitation followed by a funeral or memorial service is the first step in the grieving process. It is a time when friends, family and other guests can come together to grieve openly and to support one another in a community environment. It is also a time to say good-bye. Viewing the deceased can bring a sense of closure to the bereaved who may be in shock and denial.
What does a funeral director do?
- Pick up the deceased and transport them to the funeral home (any time, day or night)
- Notify proper authorities, family and or relatives.
- Arrange and prepare death certificates.
- Provide certified copies of death certificates for insurance and benefits processing.
- Work with the insurance agent, social security, or Veteran’s Administration to ensure that necessary paperwork is filed for receipt of benefits.
- Prepare and submit obituary to the newspaper of your choice and/or website.
- Bathe and embalm the deceased’s body, if necessary.
- Prepare the body for viewing, including dressing and cosmetizing.
- Assist the family with funeral arrangements and purchase of a casket, urn, burial vault, and cemetery plot.
- Schedule the opening and closing of the grave with cemetery personnel, if a burial is to be performed.
- Coordinate with clergy, if a funeral or memorial service is to be held.
- Arrange a police escort and transportation to the funeral and/or cemetery for the family.
- Order funeral sprays and other flower arrangements as the family wishes.
- Provide Aftercare, or grief assistance, to the bereaved.
What is embalming?
It is a process that sanitizes and preserves a dead body. It delays the decomposition process and allows time for viewing and services by the family prior to burial or cremation. It restores a life-like appearance to the body and can enhance the appearance a body that has undergone a traumatic death or illness. This process can take anywhere from one to three hours to perform. The time spent embalming depends on the severity of damage to the body, whether is be from traumatic injuries and or by not being able to perform it immediately after the notification of death.
Is embalming required if a person dies?
No, however most states insist on embalming under certain circumstances such as when the death is caused by a contagious disease or if final disposition isn’t made within a certain time frame. Embalming preserves the body, often allowing more time for arrangements. It is required if there will be a visitation. If the deceased is to be directly buried or cremated, embalming is not necessary.
Why should I buy my casket or cremation container from your funeral home instead of a casket or cremation discount store?
The casket and cremation discount stores do not have a history of longevity in the business. Several people have purchased units from these stores and before they know it, these stores are out of business within a year or so after the purchase. Because of their short lived existence, many people who have purchase products have ended up with no product to have for their respective service. Casket and cremation retail stores also have limited suppliers for merchandise, therefore on some units, they do not carry any liability agreement on units that may have already been purchased by the family. We purchase our fine quality products from reputable casket and cremation companies who have been in the business for many years. Their products all come with a liability warranty attached on each unit. With cost being very important to the consumer, most all funeral homes are able to sell merchandise at a lesser price than a retail store, as they have other income to offset their overhead.
If I chose to be cremated, can I have a funeral?
Yes, cremation can take place either before or after a funeral depending on what type of service you choose. You can have a viewing, funeral/memorial service or burial.